Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Uber Amazing and Bahay ni Badong


Thanks to a young man named Badong and his blog. I feel privileged to have been bestowed with the uber amazing award.

Yes, I intend to pass on the same award to people I have met through the blogging world. But, I think most of them have received it.

Just the same it won't be difficult to find additional five (as required) deserving bloggers. But, I will just have to get that done another day as home duties are beckoning.

Again, Badong my appreciation for the kind gesture.

Cheers!

Monday, March 16, 2009

Something To Think About

I am liberally reprinting an article from the New York Times. It talks about something which most human beings do everyday.

A Highly Evolved Propensity for Deceit
By NATALIE ANGIER
Published: December 22, 2008

When considering the behavior of putative scam operators like Bernard “Ponzi scheme” Madoff or Rod “Potty Mouth” Blagojevich, feel free to express a sense of outrage, indignation, disgust, despair, amusement, schadenfreude. But surprise? Don’t make me laugh.

Sure, Mr. Madoff may have bilked his clients of $50 billion, and Governor Blagojevich, of Illinois, stands accused of seeking personal gain through the illicit sale of public property — a United States Senate seat. Yet while the scale of their maneuvers may have been exceptional, their apparent willingness to lie, cheat, bluff and deceive most emphatically was not.

Deceitful behavior has a long and storied history in the evolution of social life, and the more sophisticated the animal, it seems, the more commonplace the con games, the more cunning their contours.

In a comparative survey of primate behavior, Richard Byrne and Nadia Corp of the University of St. Andrews in Scotland found a direct relationship between sneakiness and brain size. The larger the average volume of a primate species’ neocortex — the newest, “highest” region of the brain — the greater the chance that the monkey or ape would pull a stunt like this one described in The New Scientist: a young baboon being chased by an enraged mother intent on punishment suddenly stopped in midpursuit, stood up and began scanning the horizon intently, an act that conveniently distracted the entire baboon troop into preparing for nonexistent intruders.

Much evidence suggests that we humans, with our densely corrugated neocortex, lie to one another chronically and with aplomb. Investigating what they called “lying in day-to-day life,” Bella DePaulo, now a visiting professor of psychology at the University of California, Santa Barbara, and her colleagues asked 77 college students and 70 people from the community to keep anonymous diaries for a week and to note the hows and whys of every lie they told.

Tallying the results, the researchers found that the college students told an average of two lies a day, community members one a day, and that most of the lies fell into the minor fib category. “I told him I missed him and thought about him every day when I really don’t think about him at all,” wrote one participant. “Said I sent the check this morning,” wrote another.

In a follow-up study, the researchers asked participants to describe the worst lies they’d ever told, and then out came confessions of adultery, of defrauding an employer, of lying on a witness stand to protect an employer. When asked how they felt about their lies, many described being haunted with guilt, but others confessed that once they realized they’d gotten away with a whopper, why, they did it again, and again.

In truth, it’s all too easy to lie. In more than 100 studies, researchers have asked participants questions like, Is the person on the videotape lying or telling the truth? Subjects guess correctly about 54 percent of the time, which is barely better than they’d do by flipping a coin. Our lie blindness suggests to some researchers a human desire to be deceived, a preference for the stylishly accoutred fable over the naked truth.

“There’s a counterintuitive motivation not to detect lies, or we would have become much better at it,” said Angela Crossman, an assistant professor of psychology at the John Jay College of Criminal Justice. “But you may not really want to know that the dinner you just cooked stinks, or even that your spouse is cheating on you.”

The natural world is rife with humbug and fish tales, of things not being what they seem. Harmless viceroy butterflies mimic toxic monarch butterflies, parent birds draw predators away from the nest by feigning a broken wing, angler fish lure prey with appendages that wiggle like worms.

Biologists distinguish between such cases of innate or automatic deception, however, and so-called tactical deception, the use of a normal behavior in a novel situation, with the express purpose of misleading an observer. Tactical deception requires considerable behavioral suppleness, which is why it’s most often observed in the brainiest animals.

Great apes, for example, make great fakers. Frans B. M. de Waal, a professor at the Yerkes National Primate Research Center and Emory University, said chimpanzees or orangutans in captivity sometimes tried to lure human strangers over to their enclosure by holding out a piece of straw while putting on their friendliest face.

“People think, Oh, he likes me, and they approach,” Dr. de Waal said. “And before you know it, the ape has grabbed their ankle and is closing in for the bite. It’s a very dangerous situation.”

Apes wouldn’t try this on their own kind. “They know each other too well to get away with it,” Dr. de Waal said. “Holding out a straw with a sweet face is such a cheap trick, only a naïve human would fall for it.”

Apes do try to deceive one another. Chimpanzees grin when they’re nervous, and when rival adult males approach each other, they sometimes take a moment to turn away and close their grins with their hands. Similarly, should a young male be courting a female and spot the alpha male nearby, the subordinate chimpanzee will instantly try to cloak his amorous intentions by dropping his hands over his erection.

Rhesus monkeys are also artful dodgers. “There’s a long set of studies showing that the monkeys are very good at stealing from us,” said Laurie R. Santos, an associate professor of psychology at Yale University.

Reporting recently in Animal Behavior, Dr. Santos and her colleagues also showed that, after watching food being placed in two different boxes, one with merrily jingling bells on the lid and the other with bells from which the clappers had been removed, rhesus monkeys preferentially stole from the box with the silenced bells. “We’ve been hard-pressed to come up with an explanation that’s not mentalistic,” Dr. Santos said. “The monkeys have to make a generalization — I can hear these things, so they, the humans, can too."

One safe generalization seems to be that humans are real suckers. After dolphin trainers at the Institute for Marine Mammals Studies in Mississippi had taught the dolphins to clean the pools of trash by rewarding the mammals with a fish for every haul they brought in, one female dolphin figured out how to hide trash under a rock at the bottom of the pool and bring it up to the trainers one small piece at a time.

We’re desperate to believe that what our loved ones say is true. And now we find otherwise. Oh, Flipper, et tu?

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Learning Cascading Style Sheets

I will try to learn CSS as fast as possible. I have downloaded a template for a business site that I am trying to build. No it is not from scratch because as I mentioned, already have a template. I need to fill it up with content and try to edit some of the elements. Am I trying to swallow more than I could chew?

Yes, back then, I sold millions of dollars worth of large scale systems packages to some of our local banks not knowing the nitty gritty, so to speak. But should that give me a reason to believe I can really do this:-)

Where am I going with this?

Just that it should be worth a try. For the challenge. Wish me luck.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Hail Women of Wisdom

I celebrate International Women's Day in honor of the women in my family who came before me. For their strength of character, and the forbearance to head straight on despite the clueless situations they were stucked in.

They have lighted the way for me and other personas like me. They will all forever be treasured here in my heart.

1. My mother Lolita
2. My Aunt Encarnacion
3. My Aunt Rose
4. My Aunt Ruffa
5. Aunt Lily
6. Aunt Edith

Also today, I salute as well these women I had the pleasure of knowing: Dolly N., Emma T., Rica S., Cecille A. and Fe B. Nita D. and LydiaD.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Filipino Music Icon Francis Magalona Dies

Just got this very sad news. Francis Magalona passed away at about 12 noon today. We all know that he was on chemo therapy for awhile and most recently had a bone marrow transplant.

All I know about Francis is he was a brilliant song writer, a very intelligent rapper and most important of all, he was truly a good human being.

He was proud of his Filipino heritage. No doubt.

Francis Magalona is truly a big loss to the Philippine music industry.

Go Francis, in the bosom of God's love. There, you will find peace forever.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Join Bloggers Unite for IWD 2009

If you are into blogging for a cause, I suggest you join bloggers unite. It is a place to find advocacies that's all worthy of your time and blogging effort.

For women issues as well as recognizing and honoring women heroes in our midst, affiliate with International Women's Day (IWD). IWD's objective is to celebrate "the economic, political and social achievements of women past, present and future".

The day could "be simply an occasion for men to express their love to the women around them in a way somewhat similar to Mother's Day and St Valentine's Day mixed together"; or perhaps observe its "political and human rights theme as designated by the United Nations, " "such that political and social awareness of the struggles of women worldwide, are brought out and examined in a hopeful manner".

Issues or not, I say women of the world unite!!!

Cheers!

Ibanag in the city needs new pots and pans

I know this will look like a post that should have been included in my cooking blog. But, I guess that's alright. Cooking with all the accompanying accoutrement to concoct food is part and parcel of living. Right? And sooo, I write about things I want most at this period in my life - cooking tools and equipment.

It's been awhile that I bought anything new for the kitchen and that's kind of weird because, after 15 years of corporate marketing work, my kitchen and my dining areas now practically own me. My time, my care, including creative ideas to spruce these pieces of space are activities I love doing now.

And isn't it a swell idea to update or upgrade some of my kitchen tools who now are begging some time off from work. I became a member of shopwiki late last year. I was then fantasizing that someone would gift me a mini laptop computer. Scouring the web for specs as well as pricing information, led me to shopwiki. The truth is I was really impressed with the comprehensive style or format of the site. Never have I been to a site which offered all the practical and unexpected details, non-techies like me usually look for.

And now, as I again dream of refurbishing my small kitchen I go back to shopwiki for potential buys. What can shopwiki offer me and other shoppers out there? Cooking pans? I have been so dying to replace my old pots. I'd like to go back to the all-clad stainless steel type of pans. What I have now are mostly the non-stick anodized and they have served me well. I have no complains, really. If only I could afford those wonderful Dutch Ovens. That would be the day.

And this is what I found out also from the site when you are considering to buy cookware:

Size, Weight and Number
What size or sizes do you anticipate needing? Do you need more than one size?
Generally larger pans will serve you better, unless storage is a serious issue.
Will you be able to lift it comfortably even if it is full of water/sauce/chicken?

Materials
What material best suits your cooking needs? (Choosing Cookware Materials)
Handles
Are they attached firmly? heat resistant? long enough for your needs?
Lids
Does the pan come with the lid?
Is the lid made of glass? Will it get hot during cooking? Is it heavy enough? Does it fit snugly?

Cleaning and Maintenance
Is it dishwasher safe? Can you scrub/soak it? Will it need seasoning?

Gee, I never thought of these things before. And so if you are thinking of replacing your old pots, pans or any of your cooking tools, or perhaps, lucky to have a budget in purchsing additional small kitchen appliances, try shopwiki. You will never regret spending time in their site.

Me? I enjoyed browsing over the coutless products offered. To be exact, 215,187,279 products from every store.

Cheers!

Monday, March 2, 2009

I Watched "Pictures of Hollis Woods" on TV

If I had a Hollis Woods in my life, how happy would I be?

Hollis Woods is one of the main characters in a "television movie that debuted on the CBS television network as a Hallmark Hall of Fame movie on December 2, 2007. The film is directed by Tony Bill, and is based on the Newbery Honor winning novel of the same name by Patricia Reilly Giff. It stars child actress Jodelle Ferland as the title character along with Sissy Spacek."

I just saw it on HBO, and I don't really know why but I cried buckets :-) while watching it. Maybe, my soul made an instant connection to the character as soon as I saw the expression of loss in Hollis' eyes.

In the movie, "Hollis Woods (Ferland) runs away from her last foster parents, she is placed with a new foster mother, a retired art teacher, Josie Cahill (Spacek). Josie is very caring and a talented artist, and her life could be told in her wood work, but Josie is also not very well (Alzheimer's disease). Over time, Hollis becomes Josie's caretaker, and comes to realizes what it is like to have a family".

And did I also mention that I love Sissy Spacek. Saw her first in Coal Miner's Daughter.

Thanks to Wiki for the accompanying image.